What if I ask and he says no?
Okay, if I ask the guy out and he says no, it just means he's not interested, right? Not necessarily because I'm fat, could be anything. It doesn't mean I'm less of a person than I was the millisecond before I asked him. It doesn't change who I am. It doesn't make me worthless, or any fatter or any uglier. And it doesn't mean I will never find a great guy. It just means this wasn't in the cards and life goes on, right? (Of course it could also means he's a total idiot and has no idea what he's passing up, right? Just kidding!)
I'm starting to feel bold.
The scary thing would be, what if he says YES?