Tuesday, September 2, 2008

What if?

What if I ask and he says no?

Okay, if I ask the guy out and he says no, it just means he's not interested, right? Not necessarily because I'm fat, could be anything. It doesn't mean I'm less of a person than I was the millisecond before I asked him. It doesn't change who I am. It doesn't make me worthless, or any fatter or any uglier. And it doesn't mean I will never find a great guy. It just means this wasn't in the cards and life goes on, right? (Of course it could also means he's a total idiot and has no idea what he's passing up, right? Just kidding!)

I'm starting to feel bold.

The scary thing would be, what if he says YES?


  1. Good luck! Let me know how it goes!

  2. Ginny Alert! Ginny Alert!!

  3. If he says no he's probabl a total idiot!!

  4. Ha ha! I agree with anonymous, if he says no he's probably not too sharp!

    I'd recommend reading the book " The Rules". That book has given me so much insight on the dating world. http://www.therulesbook.com/

    Have you seen major signs of interest?

    I'd rather regret doing something, than regret doing nothing at all!

    Good luck!!

  5. I say go for it! Start with something simple like a lunch/coffee date...provided you both work it makes it easy and quick! That way if it's bad then you only have an hour...if it's great then you will be excited for your next meeting!

  6. if he says no, he must be playing for the other team.

  7. Woot, woot -- congrats on the boy not being an idiot!

    And never, ever, ever read The Rules. Sorry previous commenter, but ICK.

  8. Am really enjoying your blog. Unfortunately I don't have one. Your hard work and success is inspiring! Keep up the good work. Would love to know what all you are doing cause I really need to lose weight myself!!!


  9. OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Please share the details!!!!

  10. i knew you could do it. can't wait until friday. i'm going to be enjoying this happy hour like no other!!